Jennifer L. Gray
Award-Winning Litigator & Certified Mediator
Jennifer L. Gray has practised law since 2003 and provides legal counsel and representation primarily in family law, personal injury, insurance disputes, and general civil litigation. Raised in the Fraser Valley, she completed a Criminal Justice degree at the University of the Fraser Valley in 1997 and earned her law degree from the University of New Brunswick in 2002.
Jennifer is the recipient of the 2023 Women in Law award for Canada’s Personal Injury Litigation Lawyer of the Year. Her work is informed by a long-standing focus on conflict dynamics, including academic recognition for her studies on violence among families and youth, and advanced training in resolving high-conflict disputes in the family law context.
As part of her dispute-resolution toolkit, Jennifer is also an accredited Civil and Family Mediator (certified and practising since 2021) and has participated in countless mediations throughout her legal career. When appropriate, she assists clients in resolving matters efficiently through negotiation or mediation—bringing a calm, practical approach—while remaining prepared to advocate firmly through litigation when required.
Values and Approach
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Neutral and Respectful
Jennifer acts as an independent neutral, giving each party an equal opportunity to be heard and contribute to the resolution process. Jennifer encourages creative solutions tailored to meet the individual needs of the parties. Mediation sessions are structured to facilitate productive discussions, particularly when previous negotiations have failed due to high conflict disputes. All mediation sessions are confidential.
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Legally Informed
As a neutral mediator, Jennifer does not offer either party legal advice. Parties are encouraged to seek independent legal advice as and when needed throughout the mediation process. However, as a lawyer-mediator with experience in family law, high conflict dynamics, personal injury and insurance claims, Jennifer is live to the legal issues at stake, can provide basic legal information and parties can rely on her years of experience working through all stages of a lawsuit for guidance.
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Clear and Structured
A step-by-step process: individual intake and screening, an agreement to mediate, a defined agenda, joint and private (“shuttle”) discussions where helpful, and written terms with next steps. You’ll know what to expect at every stage.
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Flexible Formats
Mediation is available virtually (secure video) or in person. Half-day or full-day bookings, with the option of shuttle mediation for sensitive matters.
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Local and Mobile
In person across the Fraser Valley and Greater Vancouver, and by arrangement in Merritt, Kamloops, Salmon Arm, Vernon, and nearby rural communities. Virtual mediation is available anywhere in BC.
Why Gray Lawyers
Efficient Resolution: We aim to resolve your dispute as cost-effectively as possible. With our deep background in litigation and mediation, we know how to negotiate favorable settlements early, potentially saving you the expense and stress of a long trial.
Your Voice, Heard: The legal system can feel overwhelming. We ensure your story is told clearly and persuasively, whether in a boardroom negotiation or before a judge.
Strategic Control: We empower you with knowledge. By explaining your options and the likely outcomes, we put you in control of the major decisions affecting your future.
Peace of Mind: Legal disputes often bring uncertainty. We provide stability and structure, handling the complex legal heavy lifting so you can focus on your life and family.
In family and estate matters, where the parties will likely have long-term relationships such as co-parenting or sibling relationships, we facilitate a process for respectful discussions and guidance in methods for dealing with future disputes if they arise.
Book a Consultation
We’ll review your matter, and outline next steps, fees, and timing, virtually or in person throughout the Fraser Valley, Greater Vancouver, and the BC Interior.